Saturday March 14, 2009
Due to a 10:30 a.m. engagement at the Hampden Public Library I conceived the brainstorm to arrive extra-early in the area in hopes of finding a quaint breakfast place. My early research showed this to a very small community. With my GPS directing my every move, I rolled up to Village Country Kitchen in Hampden and stepped back in time. Locals refer to the place as Betty’s. Several patrons (they clearly appear to be regulars as they were each called by name) welcomed me with a cheery “Good Morning.” One gentleman recycled his newspaper to me and each said a genuine “hello” or “goodbye” as they passed my table. It was wonderful to feel this welcome. The only thing missing Andy and Opie.
As the waitress approached my table with coffee in hand I asked, “You take the card, right?” Her reply was, “Nope” but she directed me up the street the an ATM. “I’ll keep your coffee warm,” she said. Three minutes later I was back and enjoyed the best breakfast I had eaten in a while (perhaps the homey atmosphere had something to do with it). She gave me directions to the library and I was off with a full belly and a relaxed attitude.
Upon arrival at the library, I was greeted by a smiling and cheery Ellen Bump, Director of the Hampden Free Public Library. Several women were assembled in folding chair perched toward a podium. In the read of the room was a table full of homemade goodies supplied by volunteers. The warm atmosphere was accented with small potted flowers and a quilt hung from the front of podium.
After after 30 minutes of presentation the conversation got intimate. Questions peppered the room and we laughed about, well, just about everything. I could tell that the residual of just living of Hampden had its residents in a relaxed state of mind. Great thought, care and analysis came from the audience members as they wanted to know, intimately, about Zora, her upbringing, her literary work and her relationships. I was most impressed with a young woman (14 years of age!) who was home schooled and had been taking notes throughout my presentation. Shyly she raised her hand and asked a question of me that, for a moment, had me back in thesis-defense-mode. This was a critical thinker and would prove a challenge to some professor somewhere when he entered a college classroom (pride swelled in me thinking about our next generation of scholars!). She had even prepared a posted for the event with a hint of scrapbooking experience present. I autographed it for her and wished her my best regards with her future (knowing it would impact many).
We broke from the full and formal program for intimate chats at the book signing table and then broke into smaller groups for photo taking. I resisted the urge for the homemade goodies although they did look quite tempting. Not wishing to insult anyone, I recited my motto: “A minute on the lips; forever on the hips.”
To close the session, I was presented with two small potted matching sets of flowers. How absolutely thoughtful! Just for the record: I left there informed of where I could find some very interesting jewelery in Old Lyme from a woman who was wearing an absolutely beautiful earring/necklack combination. All in all, everyone left informed having had a spirited and engaging day.